Some things get better as they get older. Like the book in this picture, which my minister lends to every couple she marries. She lent it to me and Amy, and if we find passages that are meaningful to us that we want to include in our wedding ceremony, we’ll put a new sticky note to mark the section and jot notes about it. As we look, we’ll get to see what other couples chose to include in their own wedding ceremonies. You couldn’t buy a book as valuable as this. There’s only one like it, and it took about 20 years to make.